The funeral home called yesterday.
She died on Sunday.
After living 100 years. 4 months. 21 days.
She never really went to church.
Neither did her sons.
Or her grandchildren.
Or her great grandchildren.
But in a moment like this they would like a pastor to be present.
And, to say a few words.
(Their words, not mine.)
Would I do the funeral?
And, so tomorrow I will stand among them and with them.
Not to give them easy answers.
Or glib assurances.
But to reach out with my own faith.
And, my own questions.
And my own sense of the Holy.
And, for a moment
To help them stand in the presence of the mystery we call life and death.
Their lives.
Their mother’s death.
As a part of the few words I have been asked to say, I will say this:
“O God, wrap our lives in your grace that as we face the mystery of death we might see beyond the edge of today and catch a glimpse of your eternity.”
May all our lives be wrapped in that grace.
John Flynn says
August 26, 2018 at 10:16 pmFor the past 50+ years .. it still amazes me that .God whispers..to their hearts .& the family wishes to have a clergy person @ the
final committal.None of the family have put God first for many years but now as the mortal remains are interred to the dirt from which we came they turn finally to the one thing that has no end… GOD….
Let’s all pause for a moment of reflection
& pray for the unchurched