I spent this last weekend playing with and watching my 2 ½ year old grandson play.
Fish swam through the air.
Dinosaurs talked with elephants.
Legos became a car and blocks of wood a castle.
My imagination could not keep up.
Or, at least my energy.
As I watched him I began to wonder…
When did our imagination become so limited?
When did I become so practical and pragmatic that I could no longer see possibilities beyond what was right in front of me?
Maybe I need to learn to dream again.
Maybe we all do.
Lately, I have become more aware of this about myself.
I am really good at plowing through my To Do list.
One task done.
On to the next.
The good part of that is, for the most part, my days are full and busy and I keep on top of those tasks I am supposed to get done. At least those tasks which make it onto my list.
But, the bad part?
The bad part is that when I just plow through my list I am not very creative.
There is not the time or space for new ideas or new insights or new anything.
I have been paying attention to what happens when I go on my daily run.
The first half of my run is focused on getting my body and my breathing in sync.
Then, once they are, my mind becomes free to wander.
I find myself remembering things I had forgotten.
Problems that were insolvable when I was sitting at my desk plowing through my list suddenly have a solution.
New ideas push their way to the surface of my consciousness.
I have noticed I have similar experiences when I have taken walks this fall.
What I am learning (slow learner that I am) is that I get a lot of things done when I am focused on my list, but if that is all I do I am not at my best.
All of which makes me also wonder about our children.
There lives are at least as full as mine.
(And, your life is full too, I would guess!)
After school activities.
Our children have an abundance of opportunities and each day get a lot of things done.
But, are they also like me in that while they check off all the tasks on their To Do list, little time is left with nothing to do which is the time which creates the space for new ideas and for imagination to take hold and for dreaming?
All of us, including (maybe even especially) our children, have a lot of practice and skill at being busy. Maybe what we need to practice setting aside time when there is nothing scheduled and nothing to do and seeing what happens and what difference it might make. Maybe our imaginations will run wild!
If I remember correctly (and even if I don’t), the story goes something like this.
A sculptor was asked how he could sculpt such a beautiful horse.
His response was something like this.
“I simply carve away anything that doesn’t look like a horse.”
The gift of the artist is that she sees the horse in the marble or the painting on the canvas or the figure in the wood before she ever begins. She knows it is there.
Is simply to set it free.
Maybe that is our job, as well.
To see what is not yet.
To know what lies hidden in the craziness and the chaos and the confusion of today and to chip away at it, piece by piece, until what is hidden is set free.
David Letterman’s sarcasm has made them famous,
But Top 10 lists have always captured our attention.
10 best colleges.
100 best high schools.
25 richest people.
10 most influential women.
5 most powerful men.
Let’s be honest, some part of our lives are measured by or measured against being…
The most beautiful or the most handsome.
The most powerful.
The most important.
Maybe it has always been that way.
Which brings me to this…
As you consider your own life and the pressures you face and the comparisons we make, consider also the Gospel and this brief story from the life of Jesus as told by the author of Matthew’s Gospel.
At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” He called a child, whom he put among them, and said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Whoever welcomes one such child in my name welcomes me. (Matthew 18: 1-5)
Biblical scholar, Douglas Hare, Professor of New Testament at Pittsburgh Seminary, reframes these verses this way. Jesus speaking to those who would be his followers.
“In a world left to its own devices people are continually trying to lord it over one another.
The rich over the poor.
The intelligent over the simple.
Adults over children.
Men over women.
Whites over blacks.
But not so with you.” (Interpretation: Matthew – p. 205)
These verses leave ample room for scholarly discussion about just what Jesus meant by becoming like a child.
Totally dependent on another?
Humble as opposed to arrogant?
All of which may be true.
And, while we don’t know for sure what Jesus meant, we do know this about the place of children in the culture in which he lived. They did not occupy the same social status then as they do for us today. Children, then, were expendable. Literally. If they were the wrong gender or were or became disabled or were no longer useful or you could no longer feed them, they could be turned out onto the streets to survive or not to survive on their own. A reality that continues to be true in too many parts of the world even today. And while we deeply value our children, back then, they were viewed primarily as an economic asset. The more children you had the more work that could get done and the more food you could grow or money you could make and the more certainty you had that some of them would survive long enough to care for you when you were older.
In the face of that reality, Jesus says:
Unless you become like one of them…
Unless you become like one of those children…
You will not enter or see or experience the Kingdom of God.
If we take the Bible seriously…
And a child like that is placed in our midst,
What do we think Jesus would be saying to us?
And where does that reality run up against the reality of your life and mine?
Or the priorities of the culture in which we live?
But, I don’t want to leave us with just that, because I think there is more here for us to consider. As you know I believe the Bible is a living document. Not just about then, but also about now. Not just about them, but also about you and me. That being the case, what if it were your child or your grandchild or one of the children who run up and down the aisle of the church or who sometimes squirm in their seats when they are sitting next to you or who smile at you when you add your dollar to the basket they hold.
And Jesus turns to you and says…
Become like one of them…
You and we will never know or see or understand or experience the Kingdom of God.
And since I have the floor here are three characteristics of children which, if we could recapture in our own lives, might help turn us, again, in the direction of God’s Kingdom come.
The first characteristic is wonder.
It is that ability not just to notice what is around us, but to see and to marvel at what is around us. Do you remember going for a walk with a young child who wants to stop and explore everything she sees?
Who skips rather than walks just because he can.
Who laughs as dandelion seeds blow away in the wind.
Who puts a stone in her pocket because it she thinks it is pretty.
Who points out to you the cloud in the sky that looks like a puppy.
Maybe you and I need to see each other and to see the world something like that.
To cultivate a way of seeing that stops us in our tracks and takes our breath away.
But, too often, we are too busy with the tasks at hand.
Too preoccupied by that which we think is important.
Too distracted by a hundred different demands to notice.
Unless you become like a child…
A second characteristic is the ability to imagine.
Children can turn a box into a castle.
A pot into a crown.
They grab hold of a baseball bat and become a home run hitter.
Or, kick a soccer ball and score the winning goal.
They are firefighters.
And mountain climbers.
And the world’s fastest runner.
And, invisible when they want and need to be.
This is not just pretend, is it?
Knowing one thing to be true, but acting in a different way?
In that moment when their imagination is most real and most active and most alive, they are that other – astronaut, mountain climber, home run hitter. We are glad for that moment when they can be anything they want.
But we are much more realistic than that.
And more practical than that.
And see things as they really are.
But, what if we need to be more like them.
That is, if we want to see or to know and to help bring about that which God imagines and intends. Jesus was always talking about the Kingdom of God or the Kingdom of Heaven, but not as some day, but as right here and right now and among us. Is all of that just pie in the sky speculation or something more? Something that if we could recapture the imagination of children we might be able to begin to see clearly enough that we could then pull something of what we see into the moment we have and the circumstances we face right here and right now?
As People of Faith…
Maybe we are called to more like GE…
Able to imagine a better world and then build it.
(The new tagline for GE’s commercial is We imagine a better world and then build it. That tagline was used as our Call to Worship.)
Unless you become like a child…
And finally this…
Do you remember that stage when children ask, “Why?”
Why is the sky blue?
Why do I have to keep my shoes on?
Why is pixie dust only pretend?
Why do lights go out in a storm?
Why is his skin a different color than my skin?
Why? Why? Why? Why? Why?
Maybe we need to become a bit more like a four year old only with a bit more savvy in our questions.
Why are so many so hungry?
Why don’t some have a place to live?
Why does there continue to be so much violence?
Why are we so afraid of those who look different or who worship in a different way or have a different way of talking about that which we know and name as God? There are no easy answers, but we dare not give up on the questions.
And there they were…
The best friends of Jesus…
In the middle of their very adult, very intense, and very serious conversation;
When Jesus interrupts.
And places a child in their midst and says, “Unless you become like one of these…”